Does this count as losing your virginity?

**warning explicit** ok I'm 16 but this happened when I was 15 and was still unsure if my sexuality. My friend and I (both boys) decided to experiment and we did everything possible I was the one on top but I didn't finish "in him" he was giving me a HJ so does that count? I'm openly gay not btw and sorry it's sk explicit. Thanks! :D